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Donna Freedman

Living With Less

5 life skills you can learn for free

Get fit, cook and preserve your own food, and sew on your own buttons. You'll save money and feel that do-it-yourself pride. Here's how to get started.

By Donna Freedman
MSN Money

A do-it-yourself mentality is one of the most reliable ways to save money. But suppose you never watched anyone frame a wall or hem a skirt? And yeah, you know that regular exercise is important and home cooking is cheaper than takeout, but you can't afford a gym and can barely operate a microwave.

No more excuses; you can learn all sorts of things without paying a dime. The Internet is an obvious choice for new knowledge, but don't forget the public library, the Cooperative State Research, Education, and Extension Service or an old-fashioned apprenticeship with a knowledgeable relative or friend.

My dad often used the phrase "useful life skill" to describe whatever we kids were expected to do: tie up pole beans, cook a meatloaf, clean the house or can tomatoes. Sure, we groaned and complained. But as adults we don't rely on fast food, or pay someone else to fix our meals or mow our lawns.

You don't have to, either. Get fit, grow some food and sew on your own buttons. Here's how.

The skill: Basic home repair

Once upon a time, Bret Goble, 39, called a plumber for what turned out to be a simple repair. The price tag was anything but simple: "It cost about a hundred bucks to replace a 99-cent part."

Goble and his wife, Rita, started watching "This Old House" on TV. Always mechanically inclined -- as a kid, he took his toys apart to see how they worked -- Goble quickly learned to do jobs like replace a basement staircase, insulate the attic, rework a brick patio and steps, dig a swale to improve backyard drainage and install windows in their suburban Chicago dwelling.

"Bullheadedness" underlies Goble's DIY passion: "Why (should) I pay somebody for this when I can do it myself?"

Becky Blanton, 53, is another "This Old House" fan but has also learned from library books and from watching her uncle, a general contractor. And from the Internet: Recently Blanton typed the words "paint your car at home" into a search engine.

The result "looks like a (professional) paint job," says Blanton, who is currently blogging about her cross-country travels in a newly refurbished van. (She also built living quarters inside.)

Blanton has attended free Home Depot seminars, which she says are a great way for beginners to get comfortable with tools "even if you're just building a birdhouse."

"The first time you do something it's not perfect, but after several times you get better," she says. "At least when you're self-taught, no one else sees all the (mistakes)."

Some suggested sources: About.com, the DIY network, "This Old House," HGTV, Toiletology 101, free how-to seminars at Home Depot, and "The Reader's Digest New Complete Do It Yourself Manual."

The skill: Gardening

Patti Wood learned how to mow a lawn by watching YouTube. That's not nearly as sad as it sounds. Wood wasn't taught yard skills as a child, and as an adult she hired a landscape service for her Atlanta home because her job required a lot of travel.

Lately her work has become much more regional. Since she's home a lot, "it makes more sense to do (things) myself and save money." Wood usually finds what she needs to know -- deadheading roses, painting windows -- by typing the subject plus the word "video" in an online search engine.

When a pressure-washing estimate came in at $400, she decided to do that herself, too, with a borrowed machine. It went fine -- until the washer suddenly quit working. Wood and her boyfriend went to the manufacturer's home page, watched a video, and took the machine apart to fix it.

"I have hired people to do things for years," Wood says. "But I always knew I could do these things. It feels good."

Anna Florin, 56, bought a gazebo for her daughter's outdoor wedding. Afterward, she wanted to re-site it elsewhere on the family's property. She consulted a book about building concrete pads and then requested a cement mixer for her birthday.

"I have little projects every year," says Florin, who lives near Salt Lake City.

Recently she installed sprinklers in the area around the gazebo, a skill she and her husband first learned from the guide that came with the sprinkler heads. They've been installing irrigation on different parts of their three-quarter-acre property for years.

"Anything you have to pay to have done over and over," she says, "is worth learning how to do yourself."

Video: Trying to split your own wood

Often the folks who sell you equipment and supplies throw in advice for free, Florin notes. Apparently some people need to be told even the simplest things: When her son bought his own place and planted grass seed, his neighbors were astonished -- they thought grass came in rolls from a nursery.

You can learn about lawns, flowers, trees and food crops at your state's Cooperative Extension Service, either online or in person. The eXtension (pronounced "e-Extension") site has an "ask an expert" feature so you can customize your query. Try to stop by an office, though, for free advice and pamphlets, or to get the gauge on your pressure canner tested or show a master gardener the odd little larva you found on the rhododendrons.

Suggested sources: eHow.com, About.com, your state's Cooperative Extension Service, YouTube.

The skills: Cooking and preserving food

Angela Barton's epiphany occurred when she handed over $7.50 for a bag of granola. Spending "way too much money" plus having to drive to get the cereal suddenly seemed ridiculous. But as a film editor who worked long hours, she'd gotten used to "these conveniences."

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Wednesday, September 02, 2009 12:52:44 PM
I decided a year ago to fix my car which left me stranded on the highway.  It needed the water pump changed and the timing belt needed to be removed as well.  On my car, this was a particularly difficult job but because there were enthusiasts on the internet for my make/model, they had outlined how to do this job with pictures.  This was one of the most, if not the most, difficult thing that I've ever done in my life.  There were a lot of times when I hit a roadblock and wondered why did I ever decide to do this myself, but if you persist, you will always find a way eventually around the road block.  When I finally got it done, you can't imagine what a high that was.

Whenever something really challenging crops up now, I'm not running for my mommy and go straight for the phone to call someone else to do it.  Take on a difficult challenge every once in a while.  Even if you don't succeed, you will be more mentally tough for the next one.

Wednesday, September 02, 2009 2:03:20 PM
That was a really good article and I appreciated the response from Cygnus.  It puts life into perspective.  We cannot always have what we want but we can appreciate the skill to persevere through a challenging situation.  There are many lessons to learn from this article.  Thanks again!
Wednesday, September 02, 2009 2:10:05 PM
Donna Freedman's article was full of practical advice for anyone looking to save some money.  I actually posted the name and link of this article on my Facebook page so that some one else could benefit from its practical advice.  Also, the first response to the article by Cygnus was a great lesson in being our own resources when we are in need of something.  We are our best resources.  It just takes someone with experience to make us realize it.  Just as we can learn to fix things from a community resource, we are a community of people who can learn to make our lives better by what we share with ourselves.  Thanks again!
Thursday, September 03, 2009 1:21:34 PM

Some of this advice is good, but there has to be a certain comfort level.  I can do basic stuff around the house, but I would never attempt any electric or plumbing repairs-as an insurance professional, I've seen too many disasters and I want a pro to handle those.

 

For the gym, you can do cardio on your own, but it's worth the money for a few sessions with a personal trainer on weights.  I see SO many people lifting incorrectly and I cringe knowing that they are going to hurt themselves sooner or later. 

 

Sewing and cooking are a lot easier to experiment with.  I have a weird body shape because I'm so muscular, and I have to tailor most of my clothes.  If it's not too complicated, I can do most myself.  Cooking is actually pretty fun, and I recommend trying it.  It's way better than eating fast food all of the time!

Monday, September 07, 2009 6:10:05 AM

Hawkeye Girl and Cygnus are both spot-on. I got involved in increasingly  difficult household projects culminating in the entire restoration of a 19th century home, wherein my wife and I managed complete and structurally challenging renovation while preserving original windows and glass (very tricky actually),  rebuilt walls, porches, built a new kitchen full of exotic woods and cabinets and appliances, and restored and repaired beautiful floors, wainscoting, mopboards, just everything. IT took six years of weekends. IT was beautiful. I built a woodshop just to service the restoration work. I started out a semi-newby, but having grown up around machines and having learned some cabinetry, a little welding, etc. from my father, I took on a house that took six years of weekends to complete. While working on the house, with good knowledge of practical electrical issues, I was nevertheless literally blown off a step ladder by the work of a former DIY enthusiast who had violated every code in the book. Despite opening the circuit breaker, seeing the lights in the circuit dead, and testing the sockets with a DMM (electrical testing tool) the additional circuit was lurking and fully ready to deliver 100 V AND TO KILL. There is a reason we have building codes, and the road to those codes is paved with the dead and maimed.

 

Please, try new things, you really can do it, and you will feel the way I do about every new project, from replacing an automobile engine (Saved $1500 for a day's work) to rebuilding a house…earned $100,000 net of expenses). It can be frustrating, but you will learn to not start new things until you have the "peace of mind" described by my (deceased) neighbor Robert Pirsig in "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance". He related a forward  from a japanese bicycle assembly manual. It said: "Assembly of bicycle requires great peace of mind". Never start something new without meditating on your desires, the inevitability of difficulty and the unknown and likely surprises. The key to safety however, is not in boldly attacking a new challenge, but when to call in somebody who knows what they are doing and who is constitutively skilled in the art.

 

Wednesday, September 09, 2009 10:56:31 AM
After having to re-do things myself after having paid so-called professionals to do them, I began to re-think why I was calling them in the first place.  Either they don't listen to what you want done, so don't do what you requested,  or simply don't care to do the small household repair jobs.  And learning is fun! Most of the times, the instructions that come with the parts are all you need.  I turn to the internet to figure out what the problem is, then go for it.  I know I'm not physically strong enough to do some heavy things (I can't imagine changing a water pump!  Great Job, Cygnus!) so I choose my tasks,  but I've only had to call for help once when I simply didn't have the tools (which turned out to be very expensive) and enough hands to complete a job.  Now my friends call ME!
Wednesday, September 09, 2009 10:56:36 AM
really people? is there honestly that many people who didn't know they could sew on their own buttons, or mow their own lawns, or freeze some casserole? what is wrong with this picture? have americans become so reliant on others doing things for them that the majority can't fend for themselves? its good advice, but i'm shocked at how many people couldn't figure this out on their own and realized the money they could be saving. rediculous.
Wednesday, September 09, 2009 11:00:13 AM
True story.....honestly it is. Many, many years ago I found a  new sofa, with a beautiful, patterned cotton cover, that I reallly wanted. My, ( now ex), husband said no, (those were the days when what husbands said about such things mattered...lol). I was not happy. About a month later I saw the very same fabric for sale in a fabric shop and decided, (with more than a little rebellion in mind), to recover the old sofa myself. Now, the closest I had ever come to reupholstering anything was a professional quote on an old chair. I had no idea how I was going to do it, but I was darn sure I WAS. An accomplished seamstress, I simply applied the logic of dressmaking......made my own pattern pieces out of newspaper and bought some upholstery needles and thread. Was it a challenge? You bet it was. Did it work? You bet it did!!!!! It looked great and I happily used the sofa for another ten years or so. Just an example of what you can do when you put your mind to it.......and remember.....this was BEFORE the internet. Oh, and did my ex get my passive-agressive message of revolution? Nope...lol. But I got my new sofa!!!!!!!     
Wednesday, September 09, 2009 11:04:59 AM
My husband just today repaired my monitor and we've saved $200.
Wednesday, September 09, 2009 11:12:08 AM

Having grown up in a do-it-yourself household, I've always been amazed at the things my friends did not do and were even afraid to attempt. But then I encountered Phyllis, who changed the heating coil on her clothes dryer herself! She inspired me to give it a whirl when my dryer wasn't working properly.

 

I went to the appliance parts store armed with the info I needed (model #, etc.), but the male clerk was an MCP who took more joy in degrading me than in being helpful. Long story short -- his attitude helped save me even more money! I went home to get additional info, and as I began looking for it, I noticed how dirty the dryer infrastructure was -- lint everywhere. So I cleaned it off as best and could -- and the dryer worked like a charm. No new parts needed at all! I got several more years use out of that dryer.

 

My tip. If you can turn a bolt, you can change a johnny ring. Just remember to turn off the water supply to the toilet and get as much water out of the toilet bowl and tank as you can before unbolting the toilet from the floor. Have some old newspaper handy to wrap up the sticky pieces of the old ring after you remove it.

 

I taught my Significant Other how to do it. He was in his mid-50's at the time!! He's pretty handy at fixing things -- but he didn't have a clue about this. Guess there are some advantages to being The Plumber's Daughter...and Granddaughter...and Niece!!

 

Connie

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