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MP Dunleavey

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The real key to being debt-free

Deciding to get out of debt is easy; actually getting started is a bit harder. But the real test is sticking with your plan. Here's what makes an effort succeed.

By MP Dunleavey
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Debt is persistent. You may have noticed that. Debt has a sticky quality, like gum that gets in your hair.

The harder you try to get rid of it, the more of it there seems to be.

When you dislodge a chunk, you can't believe how much is still left and how hard it is to clean out.

If anyone knows this, it's me. Not only have I been in debt and clawed my way out of it, I've spent the past eight years writing about debt from just about every angle:

I have the world's first unofficial doctorate in debt. And yet, as I read through my considerable oeuvre recently, I was struck by an obvious omission.

I hardly ever mention the one skill I found myself dwelling upon almost constantly as my husband and I paid down our credit card debt. It's the secret ingredient that is as important as, perhaps even more important than, finding the money: persistence.

The science of debt

It's not an illusion -- or a sign of your own personal failure -- that debt is so sticky. Once you're in debt, researchers have found, you're much more likely to stay in debt for a long period.

Researchers at the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago analyzed the persistence of debt in 6,000 adults born between 1957 and 1984. Data come from the National Longitudinal Surveys of Youth.

Those who were in debt at point A (say, age 33) were likely to still be in debt five and 10 years later, and their debts were likely to have increased. By contrast, those who had no debt when they were first surveyed were less likely to have accumulated any debt in five to 10 years.

Among those surveyed between age 20 and 25, the people in debt at age 20 were carrying an average of about $10,900; five years later, their average debt had quadrupled to $43,700.

In other words, there's no question that debt tends to persist, and you have to cultivate an extraordinary persistence of your own to deal with it.

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Change is a process

Being in debt, by definition, means you've been living beyond your means. We all know that.

On the surface, the remedy also seems obvious: Spend less than what you earn, and you'll get out of debt.

What people overlook when they make their get-out-of-debt plans, however, is how very difficult this first step is.

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Wednesday, May 20, 2009 6:53:28 AM

Great article! The first step to getting out of a hole is to quit digging. For those that want to get out of debt, take those credit cards and cut them up and quit spending on things you dont 'need'. Then make a plan to pay them off. You wont make progress unless you have a plan.  Dont get discouraged when you take that first objective look at your debt. Remember that it took years to charge them up, it will take years to pay them down.  It will take some lifestyle changes and a hard look at your spending habits. As one of the proponents of being debt free said... Put it all on paper.. every dollar is spent on paper, on purpose. Find creative ways to free up your money. That 16 oz drink  per day that you buy for a dollar is 30 dollars a month. That cup of Starbucks that is bought every morning represents 60 dollars a month. Do you need the full cable package or can you get by on basic cable? How about highspeed internet, can you get by on a lower speed? How about magazine subscriptions that you could not renew? Every dollar you free up is another step to getting out of debt and if you focus your energy in freeing up those funds, it wont be long before you start seeing a difference.

 

 

Wednesday, May 20, 2009 8:00:52 AM

My grand-dad, with his 6th grade education, taught me a simple principle as a teenager that I never heard in Grad school.  I've lived by it to become completely debt free by 40.  Spend less than you earn, work hard, and save half of the increases in pay you get every year of your life.  It applies to your first fast food job through your success later in life.  It works.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009 8:13:42 AM
"got rid of my car."

Yeah, that's a great idea if you live in an area with public transportation, or you live within walking distance of work, not 23 miles away.
Wednesday, May 20, 2009 8:20:44 AM

The easiest way to get out of debt:

1. learn spanish.

 2. go to mexico.

3. come back to the usa as a mexican immigrant

 

Now when you get amnesty guess what??

 

You have a new identity which = a fresh new start on credit, plus a whole lot of government benefits that you would have never gotten as an american citizen.

 

 

Wednesday, May 20, 2009 8:30:16 AM

jamcl52,

 

So you are saying that the article is bad because you chose to live 23 miles from work?  Keep your car and do the other things.  Or sell your car if you have a high payment and owe less than it is worth and buy a cheaper car to eliminate the payments.  Or move closer to work.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009 8:33:18 AM
"Being in debt, by definition, means you've been living beyond your means. We all know that." .....  so says the author.  Probably not true!  Public schools in the U.S. do not teach religion, politics, or personal finance.  The current 'debt generation' how grown up never having known dial telephones, black & white TV, or life without PLASTIC.  Parent(s) do not teach personal finance, so everyone just does what their friends do - get plastic, and USE IT!  The "Roaring 90's" was caused by an entire generation spending more than they made, which fueled the giant bubbly which has now broken.  Credit card debt ballooned to almost $1 TRILLION since 1990.  (Mortgage debt ballooned as well).  We consumed more than we produced (as a nation), and now the bill has come due.  But our politicians have the answer for too much debt:  borrow our way out of it!  Isn' debt such a blessing?
Wednesday, May 20, 2009 8:43:43 AM
All things in common include:  my bank account, my diet, my plan; all shot to kingdom come!  One up, one down, where have I experienced that before?  Start over!  There is no one trick pony here, we survive, then we thrive.  There are so many rules to obey; why can't I do it right the first time?  I stopped dreaming for awhile.  I am going to put it on paper and continue to plug along.  That -- I'm good at.  I have a small retirement, I work part-time, I go to school full time, I am 65, I have ss, I have an apt. in my parent's back yard; I can let rent slide but...I have 1 credit card maxed out, 1 car I owe my life to the company store...here we go again.  I have 13 grandchildren, 4 great-grands, seven in college, I want to give them the shirt on my back; I can't, but I try.  The article is good but never enough until we do it ourselves.  Everyone is different. 
Wednesday, May 20, 2009 8:43:54 AM

Here is my advice:

 

1. get a calendar.  Write down on each day when each bill is due and amount.

2. look at your pay schedule.  If you get paid 2x per month (15/30) pay all the bills due after the 15th with the check from the 15th - then pay all the bills due before the 15th w/your 30th paycheck.  that will keep you on time.  You may need to split up your mortgage or rent from both checks.

3. Sit down before the 15th and subtract all your bills minus credit cards and see what is left.  With what is left, put the biggest chunk you can on your debt.  Leave out enough for food, gas, and a realistic amount of entertainment (which could include shopping).  Understand their are opportunity costs for every $ you spend.

4. Repeat at the end of the month.

 

If you look at this strategy, you take care of bills and debt BEFORE you factor in other things.  That way you can spend the left over money to zero and no you are still taking care of business.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009 8:44:32 AM
Hey, don't knock jamcl52 over the car, you don't always choose where you live. I moved to where I live now because my family needed me. I can't just sell and move. I can't give up my car, because it's too far and too dangerous to walk anywhere! Yes, I would move in a heartbeat if I could. After losing my parents, I tried. For years I tried (long before the recession/depression that we are in. Not much left to cut out either. So don't gimme any crap. I don't even know why I read the "money" articles. They are so out of touch with a large portion of the population. Most of you high and mighty people need to get out and see what life is really like.
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Wednesday, May 20, 2009 8:45:25 AM
one last comment - before I paid any extra on debt I would have at least $2k in emergency savings.  At LEAST enough to cover insurance debucibles should you have an accident of some sort.
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