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Why own when you can rent?

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But it depends on how often you rent. A Tory Burch tote (retail value $395) from Bag Borrow or Steal would cost $13 a week, plus a yearly membership fee of $60. I could swap designer purses with my own every other month for a year before catching up to the price of buying that one bag. On the other hand, if I rented a purse every week, I'd shell out about $740 in a year.

According to the old rules, I would have nothing to show for the money I'd spent. But under the transumer rules, you're not renting to own -- you're renting so that you don't have to own.

You're taste-testing, test-driving, flirting but never committing. And for some people, the parade of experiences and objects is more meaningful than purchasing them -- and therefore worth the money.

What about wearing it out?

There is something enticing about this idea of enjoying the transient pleasures of different things, rather than being wedded to certain fixed objects.

I never thought I would find myself writing this. I've been struggling for years now to follow the mantra: "Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without."

But the downside of that sort of vintage American practicality is that, ideally, you're supposed to be loyal to the same handbag and shoes and rug and sofa and house for . . . decades.

That saying is rooted in an era when many things didn't change for decades. Now a decade is an eternity. The beauty of transumerism is that it assumes you can't possibly afford to keep up with every change -- but don't want a stagnant life.

Putting your money where your life is

Lately I've found myself doing a new sort of math on the cost of owning a home and whether my financial and life priorities are adding up.

We have about $50,000 sunk into our house (although it wouldn't be doing much better in the market). Our mortgage and taxes come to an affordable $1,350 per month. But that doesn't include the long list of repairs the house requires -- thousands of dollars' worth and counting.

And with a 95-year-old house, the repairs aren't likely to lessen over time. They'll just be different each year.

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This past week, faced with all these expenses, I found myself considering a radical new approach to our lives:

What if we shared the ownership of this old house (and all its repairs) with two or three other families? That would dramatically ease the financial drag of maintaining one big home (buh-bye, American dream). We could rent a small apartment and ditch our car for an occasional car share. Then we could spend our money on seeing the world and doing things (such as visiting friends) instead of on chimneys and deck repairs and paint jobs and transmissions.

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That's true transumerism: You divest yourself of costly material goods and put your money where your life is.

I'm not saying I want to rent objets d'art and designer duds to make myself look fancy. But maybe the rental lifestyle offers a new way to spend money on what you really want.

Published May 6, 2009

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Wednesday, May 06, 2009 3:49:40 AM
Showing off a purse? Seeing the world?  What happens when that grows old, and it does. When one looks deeper in the article, the ideas are very much "other driven" and may be based on not knowing what one really wants.  Do some rethinking before going too far into transumerism.  Real happiness does not depend on traveling, renting, owning, possessions nor how others see us....we find it inside.
Wednesday, May 06, 2009 6:36:13 AM

Why own a home?  A big reason is that some day it will be paid off, and if you are living on a fixed income, or God Forbid, just Social Security in your retirement, it is a lot better to only have to pay taxes and utilities to keep a roof over your head than it is to have to pay rent (which inevitably goes up along with inflation).  Yes, homes require upkeep but some of it is discretionary -- and much of it can postponed for times when money is relatively less tight.  Then, you can get a "reverse mortgage" and let your home pay your bills in the Golden Years.  To me those are the most compelling financial reasons to own a home and not to be a lifetime renter.

Wednesday, May 06, 2009 7:06:15 AM
This is a clever way to live for the first few years of adulthood...  But I couldn't imagine not sitting in my little (but really nice and private) backyard and cracking a cold beverage and looking at the house we as a family built into a home.  Never mind the tax deduction for % paid.
Wednesday, May 06, 2009 7:11:24 AM

Ditto to the first two responses - especially the part about living in retirement or on a fixed income.  Look at the financial security of those who rent versus those who own and see who is going to fair better in a financial bind.  If you are renting and you lose your job - good luck finding another place to rent with no income!  With a home, you have assets you can use to get you through if you need to use it.  Owning a home doesn't mean you have to live beyond your means.  You said you are paying $1350/month now - what would you be paying for the same size apartment?  Did you opt for a more expensive house than what you would have spent for an apartment?  If you did, then maybe you bought too much house.  The cost of repairs should be part of what you budget into your total "housing" expense.  If you could afford $1500/month, then you don't buy a 95 year old house that costs $1350 per month - you would be naive to assume repairs and such would not run you over the 1500 benchmark.  You would have been more realistic to assume with a house that age you would have $500/month in repairs and limited your purchase options to a house that would only cost $1000/month in PITI.  Plus, let's not forget the benefit of being able to write off the interest you are paying on your taxes.  Good luck writing off the rent.

 

I have been stunned by some of your grossly misleading and uninformed financial advice and the fact that you have such a high profile column.  I admit I do read it for the entertainment value and I like the items on the "Women in Red".  But this is really the worst thing I have seen you propose to date.

Wednesday, May 06, 2009 7:20:19 AM
Wow you have no patience! You've sunk 50K plus 16,200 a year on mortgage payments and taxes and insurance for a 95 year old house! And you still have 25+ years to go?  (16,200 * 30 years = $486,000) I bought a used mobile home for less than $15,000. We live in it and bank the mortage payments into our savings account. Now after about 3 years we've saved up 40k. We have a few more years to go. But one day we'll reach our goal and start building the house we want the way we want. This is no different than the cash car buying strategy - Buy a used beater, drive it and continue to make car payments to yourself every month until you've saved up enough to buy the car you want for cash. The only difference between buying a car cash and a house cash is the length of time and the size of the payment. Wouldn't it of been smarter to save that 16,200 a month for say - 7 years and buy a house you want for cash? (16200 * 7 = $113,400) Then be mortgage free for the rest of your life? I got a friend you went online and bought a used school classroom for $500! He had it moved to his property and built walls and added cabinets and did everything to make it a house. It already had plumbing, electricity, etc. He just finished the interior to make it livable. He did this over 6 months and paid cash. Now he lives rent and mortgage free. He's saving $3,800 a month for the goal of building the kind of house he and his wife want. You don't need to rent or get a mortgage if you do these kind of strategies.
Wednesday, May 06, 2009 7:23:21 AM

Wouldn't it of been smarter to save that 16,200 a month for say - 7 years and buy a house you want for cash? 

Should be: Wouldn't it of been smarter to save that 16,200 a year for say - 7 years and buy a house you want for cash?

Wednesday, May 06, 2009 7:25:36 AM
Wow, by this logic, why invest exercise, good food and a healthy lifestyle in your body.  Indulge, live in excess, do drugs, and die in a flash by 40.

Oh thats right, realistic lifestyle and thinking longterm as opposed to short term thrills seems to make sense.
Wednesday, May 06, 2009 7:27:27 AM
The biggest reason I see for owning something, especially a vehicle or house, is that when you need/want (i.e., can afford) another vehicle or move somewhere else, you can sell the vehicle/house and recoup at least a part of your investment.  With renting you really have just thrown money at someone else and will never see it again.
Wednesday, May 06, 2009 7:32:50 AM
I agree that people are tiring of piling up endless mountains of posessions.  The feeling is the less you own the more free you are.  Free to travel, free to move  relatively quickly to take advantage of a new opportunity and free from much worry and expense. I think this is a major trend we will see many adopt in our society in the years to come.  Good Article!
Wednesday, May 06, 2009 7:44:34 AM

Yes, instead of going to see Venice, Barcelona or Paris, why not rent a DVD and watch it at home? Instead of bying car of your dreams and enjoy owning it, why not rent and make money for rental agency? It is better to pay rent and build someone else's equity than leave a home for your kids... America, this recession is a way for many people to make money publishing stupid ideas like this.

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