Donna Freedman

Living With Less

How to become a one-income family

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Step 2: Redo your budget

I've written before about how to stage a financial fire drill: Create a "baseline budget" of bare essentials such as food, shelter and utilities. It's a good idea to know how little you could live on if you had to, says CPA Sally Herigstad.

"Once you figure out the baseline budget, you can start adding (items) back to something you can live with," says Herigstad, the author of "Help! I Can't Pay My Bills!" and a regular contributor to MSN Money.

Starting in January 2006, Jaime and Matt allowed $300 a month for groceries and other necessities, plus $25 a month each for fun money. They dropped cable, reduced their phone plan and switched car insurance several times to get the best possible deal.

They sold Matt's beloved 1985 Jeep (he belonged to an off-road-vehicle club) and the almost-new Honda. The couple also sold off a ton of personal property, from musical instruments to a kayak. Matt sought website design jobs to bring in extra cash.

The fact that Jaime got pregnant a few months later lent a sense of purpose to their plans. "Once you're really both committed, it becomes a game," says Matt.

By the time their son Finley was born in December 2006, they'd paid off most of their debts and banked $23,000. Jaime received reduced pay during her three-month maternity leave, and that income also went to debt repayment. She ended her leave by returning to her old job for a little over a month, then gave notice when the last of the student loans was paid off.

If you are downsized involuntarily, implement a baseline budget right away.

Step 3: Live on the single paycheck

Those who plan to leave their jobs have the luxury of a trial run to track how well a single paycheck covers costs. According to Ellie Kay, the author of "Half-Price Living: Secrets to Living Well On One Income" and "The 60-Minute Money Workout," people often forget to factor in small or irregular expenses: oil changes, haircuts, piano lessons, birthday party gifts, auto repairs, class trips.

To build an accurate budget, Kay says, "you need to (scrutinize) your checkbook and your credit card statements -- those don't lie."

If you've lost your job, you have no choice but to live on a single income (plus unemployment, if you qualify). You do, however, have a choice about how you live: griping and feeling sorry for yourself, or framing this as a temporary setback.

"It's just for a season. It's for a very clearly defined goal," Kay says.

Certain expenses will go down. The nonworking spouse won't need a professional wardrobe and can help reduce costs by looking for grocery deals, cooking at home and caring for any children instead of paying for after-school or day care. Two-car couples won't spend as much on insurance if one vehicle isn't being driven to work every day. You might even decide to get rid of one car.

One expense that should be factored in: retirement savings for the nonworking spouse. "That's a big mistake people often make when they get out of the work force. That could really cause problems (later)," says Kimberly Palmer, the author of "Generation Earn: The Young Professional's Guide to Spending, Investing and Giving Back."

Suppose you do manage to live on one paycheck during the trial period. What to do with the second income? Bank it, of course. It becomes your emergency fund. (Already have such a fund? Well, now you have a larger one.) If you don't have one, read "An emergency fund out of thin air."

Step 4: Look for other ways to make money

If you can't get unemployment and nothing's available in your field, consider selling belongings, taking a stopgap job or even creating your own work. Spicer did freelance computer consulting, sold off his company's construction equipment and, over time, short-sold most of the properties. Carolina marketed many of their personal items online, which Spicer now says was a good move because it reduced clutter.

The biggest change, though, was Spicer's creation of SkyLedger, a Web-based accounting system he designed from software he'd previously developed for his own business. SkyLedger has become a full-time job, and he continues to work as a computer consultant.

Jaime did a little freelancing (managing a video project for friends) when Finley was 6 months old. By 2008, she had started in a new field, business coaching. She worked briefly at a local company, but when the hours got too long she decided to work from home. Jaime blogs about successful business and life strategies at Eventual Millionaire, but this does not bring in extra income, as she decided against putting ads on the site.

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12/31/2010 10:36 PM
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I really feel that there are alot of people worse off than the people in this article. They are living on more after downsized incomes than we did with 2 wage earners. There is no trick to it either, when the money is gone you have to quit spending. I never had much discretionary income so I never got used to recreational shopping, but I'm still surprised by how many people do just that! Happy New Years all!
12/27/2010 9:44 PM
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Ecuador, Malaysia etc.  DO NOT retire in the U.S! do the research.  As  for the dual income deal, good luck, for some it'll take "triple" income.  If you're not blessed with money "in the FAMILY" or a HIGHLY-HIGHLY paid professional, you are NOT going to be a "PLAYER".  Get used to it.  As the article said-create the "budget" you pretty much have to live with for most of your life. I have 2 degrees in business and journalism, and I am not going to be rich! EVER! SO what. Priorities folks.  If you want a ton of money before you're 50, then you cannot have the life circumstances of the folks in the above article.  You have to eat-sleep-think-crap-breath the "business".  Otherwise it ain't gonna happen for ya.  No matter what "uncle Ted" say's "life is what you make of it, hard work..bla..bla, that ain't the case...most of life IS LUCK!  you are either in the right spot, OR YOUR NOT, period.  Happy New Year.
12/14/2010 2:08 PM
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Just wanted to point out that the Mathews family was living on $30,000 to $40,000 a year when Jaime wasn't working.
They do have more now because of her home-based business. But if some or all of her business coaching gigs vanished they could still manage on a lot less.

12/14/2010 1:38 AM
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I still have hope.  After my company downsized in August 2008 and I was one of many that were let go. I'm now starting to feel the effective of being out of work and with out a job and now without an income. Yes, I've reached my 99th week in August. What are people doing 55 and older and they can't find work?  It very stressful and depressing. 
12/13/2010 8:57 PM
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I found myself in a severe financial situation back in 2004.  Cancer.  I always thought if an American citizen that paid taxes all their life, donated to charities and so on, would get some help from government program when seriously ill.  I was very WRONG!  I got nothing...I had to use all my savings, cash in retirements, sell my vehicle and so forth.  One thing I learned was how cheaply I could live.  By the time the '08 mess started, I already was already living very frugal and owed no money to anyone.  The biggest problem I find is locating a resonable place to live(rent) that isn't in a trash neighborhood, or violent/dangerous area that I can afford and still save money.  I'm not paying high rent on anything...I'm a dependable paying tenet, don't trash the place or have wild parties, but everywhere I look landlords want a small fortune for housing.  It's a rip off.  Who's that guy that's famous for the line..."rents just to damn high!"  I agree. 
12/13/2010 8:53 PM
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Where are the real people in this article, those of us who bring home less than 18K a year, who maintain health insurance, who contribute 20% to retirement, who raise a family and own a home, who save and don't live like millionaires and actually have a very good lifestyle?

Get a freaking clue, people! It's not the material things that matter. Live within your means, stop spending and stop filling your houses with crap that means nothing in the big picture. Cook at home, plant a garden, save and recycle like it used to be done long ago, spend time with family and friends, send the kids outside to play and actually play WITH them!

If I made the money these people made, I'd be retired early, no bills and living the good life!

12/07/2010 11:24 AM
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It seems that most Americans who are down on their luck, and having a really hard time are people who are or were employed in making or selling goods or services. Wal-Mart = China mart. It is very difficult to find ANYTHING that is made in the U.S. anymore. (Yeah, I don't want a Chevy)

On Wall Street, they make a living moving imaginary money around and 'creating' things like derivatives that later help to screw people like you and me. That is fake, and dishonest, and it is what the world runs on now. Folks, those powerful people in the finance sector are deeply connected with government, and it IS and conflict of interest. If you have a chance, please check out the docu movie out right now called Inside Job. It will really Pi$$ you off.  I wish everyone who actually works for a living or is having a hard time right now has the very best.  Peace. 

12/03/2010 11:02 AM
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If you want a one income family, vote for Politicians that raise taxes on your employer.
12/01/2010 3:01 PM
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This article is not helpful at all.  Their "cut back" life and income is what my husband and i make combined a year, both working full-time.

Please write an article that shows what a REAL family, living off of $40,000 a year can do. 

12/01/2010 2:55 PM
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Step #1:  Declare Bankruptcy

Step #2:  Live on one paycheck

 

Oh... I guess we only need two steps.

12/01/2010 2:40 PM
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For all those wanting "good jobs"  Take a look at what you are buying and where it is made.  We have done this to ourselves people.  Welcome to the Third World of the United States..
12/01/2010 2:18 PM
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I earn 35000 a year. Im 25, and my wife is on unemployment. In southern california, its not something to boast about. We used to make 60,000 a year together, and now with a 6 month old baby, its pretty tight living. When you make poverty level income, you have to engineer every dollar like its oxygen on the Apollo 13.

 

With the examples given here, they clearly still have breathing room, and its rather uninspiring. I can appreciate the struggle from riches to rags, but hey. Welcome to the club.

 

Most of us face these problems day to day... maybe for a lifetime. Were not dealing with "goal oriented" budgets, our money vaporizes like water in the sand.

 

And no, its not just the unedjucated, foolish and ignorant that fall into this position. I have an AA in computer science and am working on a bachelors in business admin. Im not saying i am the pinnacle of righteous financial worthiness, im just saying finances dont work in a cookie cutter system - ever. Finances are a bloody surgical mess that can lead to lifechanging circumstances between barely paid rent notes and bills.

 

The real moral I encourage your readers to glean from this article is this:

 

"Live as though you are bankrupt; earn as though you own the bank" - because god knows i will if i earn more.

12/01/2010 12:26 PM
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My God, Try living on a combined $40K a yr, one child, one on the way. Lost our house, now filing bankruptcy. How about an article on how to live like that? They currently make $70-80K/yr and I am supposed to pat them on their backs for their efforts? They better be able to make it on that much.
12/01/2010 11:39 AM
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Can you write an story about people that don't earn $100,000 a year and want a year off? Their problems are small when measured against people earning $30,000 a year or two people earning $60,000 and less. This article has little effect and a narrow scope.
11/27/2010 12:06 AM
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i think the first step in being a one job household household is to get jobs back in the usa so we can at lest have a job in households right now we have a lot of no job households and people look down on them like there the pelage
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