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Raising your $221,000 baby

Children are priceless, but raising them is one of the most expensive things you'll ever do. Here's how much it costs, along with some strategies for lowering expenses.

By MSN Money staff

Every newborn child is a bundle of joy. But you'd better have a bundle of cash on hand if you want to raise one.

Typical families, those making from $56,870 to $98,470 a year, will spend a whopping $221,190 to raise a second child born in 2008 through age 17, estimates the Center for Nutrition Policy and Promotion (.pdf file), a division of the U.S. Department of Agriculture.

Higher-income families will spend even more. Those earning more than $98,470 will spend $366,660 overall in the U.S. to raise a second child; that figure rises to $406,680 in urban areas of the Northeast.

Though not as steep, the figures for lower-income families are just as unsettling: $159,870 for families making less than $56,870 to raise a second child.

That averages $8,882 a year for a lower-income family, $12,288 for the middle-income group and $20,370 for top earners.

This is no back-of-the-envelope guesstimate. The survey involves interviews with about 5,000 households, four times a year.

The cost per child goes down for larger families. A child with no siblings costs 25% more than one with a sibling, for example. As a percentage of household expenditures, an average couple will spend 27% on an only child, 40% on two children and 47% on three children, the USDA estimates. As the child ages, costs rise through age 5, plateau from ages 6 to 11, then rise again, reaching $22,960 a year from ages 15 to 17 for the highest income earners.

Sobering? No doubt. Misleading? Yes. The study doesn't take into account certain expenses incurred by some families, such as heavy medical bills or pricey private schools. It's a composite average, and, by definition, that means your numbers will be a little (possibly a lot) higher or lower. And because the survey ends at age 17, it doesn't take into account the millions of college students who are supported in part or in full by their parents. In 2020, you'll need nearly $225,000 for a private college or $105,000 for an in-state public university. (Run the numbers with our tuition calculator.)

The study also doesn't consider lost income that occurs when one parent stops working or takes off several years to raise the children during the early years -- or takes a lesser-paying job with more-predictable hours.

Before you take a vow of celibacy, look on the bright side: There are ways to trim the expenses.

The study breaks down overall expenditures into various categories and subsections. (The information is used by state agencies and court systems to determine child-support guidelines and foster-care payments, among other things.) We'll go through each of the major categories, give the total expense for families from the low to high ends, and then offer cost-cutting ideas and some tax tips from our tax expert, Jeff Schnepper.

Housing

Cost through age 17: $53,100 to $126,180

Housing is the biggest single expense of raising children, comprising a third of overall annual expenses.

What you can do

You could ignore one of the basic assumptions used in calculating additional housing costs. You could decide not to move into a larger home. The table assumes that for each child you have, you're going to add 100 to 150 square feet of living space to your home. By definition, that means you're going to either renovate your existing house or buy a new one. Go against the flow and figure out how to use the space you've got.

For many families, that solution won't get it done. Try this: If you've had your mortgage for a while and plan to stay in your home, keep track of mortgage rates and consider refinancing when the rate is more than a percentage point below your current mortgage. It can save hundreds to thousands of dollars on the loan. You can get an idea about current rates and offers at MSN Money's Mortgage & Refinance page.

Challenge your property tax bill if you think it's too high. (See "As home values sink, tax appeals soar.") The National Taxpayers Union estimates that as much as 60% of taxable property in the United States is over-assessed.

Additionally, make your home as energy efficient as you can. That means everything from replacing old and inefficient furnaces and water heaters to bolstering insulation.

Finally, give some thought to moving to a less-expensive place to live. That could mean a smaller house across town -- or in a completely different part of the country. What with median home prices in some areas topping $600,000, look into parts of the country where housing prices (and property taxes) may be a bit more manageable. Realtor.org regularly releases statistics on existing-home sales by state.

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Tax tips

Make as much as possible of your housing costs tax-deductible. Interest and real-estate taxes are deductible. Use your home equity to finance other expenditures. The interest on debt of up to $100,000 secured by the equity in your house is tax-deductible. It doesn't matter what you use the money for.

Consider a home office. Now, you can qualify for a home office even if you do only managerial duties or simple record-keeping there. Prior to 1999, it had to be where you actually performed the activities of your job.

If you have a home office, you can deduct the percentage you use for business of all your housing costs. These include interest, taxes, insurance, utilities, landscaping, depreciation and the cost of any furniture or equipment you use in your home office. For more about claiming those deductions, see "The tax traps of working at home."

How much will your family spend?*
Pretax income/ age  Total Housing  Food Trans. Clothes HealthCare/ school  Misc.
Less than $56,870
Through age 2 $8,500 $2,950 $1,090 $1,080 $620 $570 $1,780 $410
3 to 5 8,5702,9501,1901,1304905401,670600
6 to 8 8,3302,9501,6101,240560600750620
9 to 11 9,0102,9501,8501,2505706201,130610
12 to 14 9,4302,9502,0101,360670950770680
15 to 17 9,4502,9502,0001,510710920790570
Total $159,870 $53,100 $29,250 $22,710 $10,860 $12,810 $20,670 $10,470
$56,870 to $98,470
Through age 2 $11,610 $3,870 $1,310 $1,550 $740 $770 $2,500 $870
3 to 5 11,6503,8701,4001,6006007302,3901,060
6 to 8 11,6203,8701,9701,7206708501,4601,080
9 to 11 12,3503,8702,2501,7206909101,8401,070
12 to 14 13,0203,8702,4201,8308201,2801,6601,140
15 to 17 13,4803,8702,4101,9808801,2102,1001,030
Total $221,190 $69,660 $35,280 $31,200 $13,200 $17,250 $35,850 $18,750
More than $98,470
Through age 2 $19,250 $7,010 $1,790 $2,350 $1,020 $890 $4,440 $1,750
3 to 5 19,2707,0101,8802,4008608504,3301,940
6 to 8 19,2807,0102,4702,5109409803,4101,960
9 to 11 20,0907,0102,8002,5209801,0403,7901,950
12 to 14 21,3707,0103,0002,6301,1401,4704,1002,020
15 to 17 22,9607,0102,9902,7801,2401,3905,6401,910
Total $366,660 $126,180 $44,790 $45,570 $18,540 $19,860 $77,130 $34,590

*Estimates of expenditures on the younger child in a two-child, two-parent family. To estimate expenses for an only child, multiply the figure by 1.25. To estimate expenses for each of three children, multiply by 0.78.

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Wednesday, August 19, 2009 9:29:45 AM
omg... i have 4 children...
Thursday, August 20, 2009 1:32:58 AM

Children need love, support and affection from both a loving father and a

loving mother. $$$ signs are not important in a child's life.  A warm blanket, milk, and the teachings of Jesus Christ are the most important thing we can give children.  They need to learn to work as soon as they learn to walk. they must learn to share, they need to feel needed in the family by making a contribution in love, and never rejected, but disciplined

in living the commandments of God as they understand them.

Friday, August 21, 2009 8:20:13 PM
I'm so greatful for having the mumps as a child otherwise I would probably be in the hell of raising kids.  Just like most people, most likely with an ex partner you can't stand and vice versa .  No headaches, more sleep, less stress, more money, more free time, more freedom, less responsibilty, no life long ties to an ex, what more could I ask for? 
Friday, August 21, 2009 8:44:57 PM
This kind of article is what I consider useless and stupid.  Of course every parent knows there is lots of costs in raising a child.  If everyone read this, no one would want to have kids based on the numbers!! But of course our lives are enriched by having new addition,  and of course the rewards of teaching my baby family and values and passing on our family name and heritage totally outweighs the $$$$.  Open-mouthed  
Friday, August 21, 2009 8:53:24 PM
The damage this calculation does to divorced fathers thru child support guidelines derived from it is unimaginable. You have to be stupid to think that this happy quantity of money would be spent on kids if two households needed to be maintained. That's exactly what the family courts do. The net effect of this ridicules calculation is children of divorced parents loose their Dads. Divorced fathers can't afford to feed themselves let alone become visitors in their kids life's. Wake up America, this is the root of all that is wrong in our society today.
Friday, August 21, 2009 8:53:36 PM
What's up with the backward reference to taking "a vow of celibacy"? What does MSN think this is, the Dark Ages? My husband and I have been together for 12 years (married for the last 8 of those) and have had always had a healthy sex life with no kids (because we don't want any, and frankly money is the biggest of over a dozen reasons). By combining at least two (and we've occasionally used three) reliable methods of birth control, you are guaranteed to never have an accident. Even if you did, I know of married couples who have had abortions. No one ever has to reproduce by chance anymore. Lose your antifeminist medieval mentality, MSN, and acknowledge that couples today can have all the sex they want without breeding (whether you prigs like it or not), as long as they consistently practice relying on the proper precautions.
Friday, August 21, 2009 9:02:14 PM
Right, so kids need a blanket, milk, and God.  I think I'll tell my 18-month old the next time she's hungry and needs a diaper that she doesn't need food or a diaper cause God has her back.  And wow, Claytonmk, do you have the wrong idea about kids.  If you really feel that way, I'm glad you can't have kids either.  For Cirocko, it's not just dads anymore.  There are a lot of dads with custody and the moms are paying support, so it swings both ways.  Don't be so sexist.  Those of us who are parents and struggling know how much it costs and we have ways of cutting costs, so telling us that we're spending x amount on something isn't a gospel if you learn how to budget to change things.
Friday, August 21, 2009 9:19:55 PM
God has blessed us with seven children. To raise them has certainly not cost even close to what this article indicates.  We have always had a garden to raise fresh food, the children wore hand-me-down clothing and thrift store finds, they bought their own new clothes with their own earned money, we educated them at home at very little expense, and they never felt deprived. They have all turned out to be fine, Christian young people with intelligence and respect for others.  I feel very sorry for  people who don't want children,  or don't feel that they can afford them.  There are many things that are really luxuries these days that people think they have to have.  I would much rather have the lasting legacy of a godly family.
Friday, August 21, 2009 10:05:27 PM

They are all adults now, how do I get my money back?

Friday, August 21, 2009 10:07:45 PM
Strange, the article never addressed the parental concerns of "baby mamas" or "baby daddys"?  Why?  They have no concerns.
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