You can't afford the payments on your home. Your efforts to get your mortgage modified are going nowhere. You may even have tried to sell the home for less than what you owe, but the short sale fell through.
Now you face some grim options.
You can let the home slide into foreclosure, or you can try to prevent or at least delay the foreclosure with a bankruptcy filing.
Here's what you need to know to make the right decision:
Foreclosure takes a while. The amount of time between your first missed payment and the sheriff arriving to throw you out varies considerably by state, lender and even market conditions, but foreclosure doesn't happen overnight.
Although a lender can start foreclosure proceedings after a single missed payment, most wait until three or more monthly payments have been skipped. How long the process takes after that varies widely; some Southern states give lenders the power to oust borrowers from their homes in a matter of weeks, while in other areas foreclosures are now dragging on for 12 months or more, said attorney Stephen Elias, the author of "The Foreclosure Survival Guide" (also available for free on self-help legal publisher Nolo's Web site).
In general, foreclosures move faster in states that don't require lenders to go to court to get the process started ("nonjudicial" foreclosures) than in states that do ("judicial" foreclosures). To see which applies in your state, visit Nolo's "How foreclosure works" page.
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- A Chapter 13 repayment plan requires you to pay back at least some of your debts over five years.
- A Chapter 7 liquidation erases most of your consumer debt in a few months.
"With a Chapter 7, you usually get two months" of breathing room from the foreclosure process, Elias said. "With Chapter 13, it's usually six months."
That is, unless you can demonstrate you're able to pay back what you owe. In that case:
Chapter 13 can help you catch up. If your financial setback was temporary and you now have the money to make your mortgage payments and get caught up on the payments you missed, a Chapter 13 bankruptcy can save your home.
A Chapter 13 also can help you get rid of second and third mortgages, including home equity loans and lines of credit, if you no longer have the equity to secure those loans.
Unfortunately, few people are in a position to get caught up on their mortgages, Elias warns. Many who fall behind do so because their payments are too big or their income has dropped. They still can't afford their primary home loan payments, let alone pay back the arrears they owe, even if the extra payments are stretched out over five years.
Another problem with Chapter 13: It's expensive. Attorneys typically charge $3,000 and up to handle a repayment plan bankruptcy, which is about twice the going rate for the simpler Chapter 7 filing.
Weigh the costs and what filing buys you. Even if you can't save your home, you may want to consider Chapter 13 just to buy yourself more time, if you can afford to do so.
The longer foreclosure takes, the more time you have to stay in your home and save money. The cash you would have been applying to your mortgage can go to a savings account to help you make a security deposit on a rental, Elias said.
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Elias strongly believes people should stay in their homes as long as they possibly can to strengthen their finances for life in a post-foreclosure world, when credit will be tough to get.
"I get really depressed when I heard people have left their house" before they have to, Elias said.
You may not feel comfortable staying in a house you can't pay for, of course. But if your goal is to buy more time, you can do the math to see if the extra months bankruptcy offers would allow you to save enough to make it worth the cost.
Chapter 7 may help -- or it may not. A Chapter 7 liquidation won't help you keep your home, since this type of bankruptcy erases unsecured debt, not the kind of debt that's secured by a house.
But it could allow you to erase consumer debt, such as credit card and medical bills, in addition to slowing the foreclosure process for a couple of months.
Continued: When Chapter 7 is not a good idea